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#Girlsgist Hello Sisters! How is the quarantine season treating us or how are we making good use of it? So today I would love us to read about this woman called Jochebed! Moses Mother Read about her in Exodus 1 She is a; Life giver. Risk taker. Faith filled woman. Obedient to Gods leading. An audacious woman. Jochebed risked everything to save her sons life, hiding him for three good months and putting him in a basket to the waters of the Nile. Like who does that? In a basket! A basket we all know as women can never float on water but she never imagined that at all. Regardless of anything God expects us to absolutely adhere to his leading in obedience. He wants us to first put His plans before considering any other plans. Imagine, if Jochebed wasn't sensitive to who Moses was to become spiritually. Who would have led the children of Israel? Now the question is! If God has/will entrust souls into your hands as a Mother, will you be able to be all of t...

#Girlsgist TO BUILD AND HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP; YOU ALSO NEED TO BE SUBMISSIVE IN COURTSHIP. I know the bible only made reference to WIVES only in, Ephesians 5:22, "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord". But as ladies in courtship or preparing to go into courtship someday, this is also referring to us. Submission is the charm that can activate love in any relationship, even in marriage. It is the act of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person. In other words, it is you being under the authority of your partner who is the superior by God and Man's standard. I have heard and seen a lot of ladies who do say that they can never be submissive to their partner because they aren't married yet, that the partner will make a fool out of them when they become submissive. So until they are married they will be. See ehnnnn! If he is not your husband yet and you cannot submit to hi...

#Girlsgist I HOPE YOU ARE RELYING ON GOD ONLY FOR A LIFE PARTNER? Not even by your own feelings should you choose or by anyone's leading, be it your pastor, mentor, friend etc. I know most pastors or mentors can get the revelation for you but it is still very important to hear God for yourself. If God can reveal that to anyone then he can for you. So God expects us to seek and wait for his choice through his leadings and not who we feel is best for us or who anyone feels is best for us. As a lady in waiting, when you are relying on God completely for a life partner, you are securing a solid and godly foundation for your marriage in the future. Not only that though, there are a lot of benefits. I'm sure you know you deserve a loving and God fearing partner that will make marriage fulfilling, that will make raising of the kids in a godly way easy and many more beautiful feelings in marriage. Well, this is why God expects us to wait for his choice by His leading. Se...

#Girlsgist COHABITING! A lot of we ladies have gotten it wrong on this and been lied to all in the name of marriage. Before making lifelong commitment before God and man in marriage, please avoid the temptation of cohabiting. Cohabiting is Living together before marriage in a simple definition. It is very wrong for Christians and as a daughter of God to live together with a man or husband to be before marriage. God frowns at this act and expects us to flee from any form of it. He said, “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body”. 1 Corinthians 6:18 Cohabiting births the sin against our own body (sex) so God pleads with us to flee from it. I have heard a lot of ladies say nothing will happen, we are matured enough to control ourselves but for how long? Imagine sharing a space with a man, cooking, washing his cloths and performing any wifey role and you said nothing will ...