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#Girlsgist Hello Sisters! How is the quarantine season treating us or how are we making good use of it? So today I would love us to read about this woman called Jochebed! Moses Mother Read about her in Exodus 1 She is a; Life giver. Risk taker. Faith filled woman. Obedient to Gods leading. An audacious woman. Jochebed risked everything to save her sons life, hiding him for three good months and putting him in a basket to the waters of the Nile. Like who does that? In a basket! A basket we all know as women can never float on water but she never imagined that at all. Regardless of anything God expects us to absolutely adhere to his leading in obedience. He wants us to first put His plans before considering any other plans. Imagine, if Jochebed wasn't sensitive to who Moses was to become spiritually. Who would have led the children of Israel? Now the question is! If God has/will entrust souls into your hands as a Mother, will you be able to be all of t...

#Girlsgist TO BUILD AND HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP; YOU ALSO NEED TO BE SUBMISSIVE IN COURTSHIP. I know the bible only made reference to WIVES only in, Ephesians 5:22, "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord". But as ladies in courtship or preparing to go into courtship someday, this is also referring to us. Submission is the charm that can activate love in any relationship, even in marriage. It is the act of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person. In other words, it is you being under the authority of your partner who is the superior by God and Man's standard. I have heard and seen a lot of ladies who do say that they can never be submissive to their partner because they aren't married yet, that the partner will make a fool out of them when they become submissive. So until they are married they will be. See ehnnnn! If he is not your husband yet and you cannot submit to hi...

#Girlsgist I HOPE YOU ARE RELYING ON GOD ONLY FOR A LIFE PARTNER? Not even by your own feelings should you choose or by anyone's leading, be it your pastor, mentor, friend etc. I know most pastors or mentors can get the revelation for you but it is still very important to hear God for yourself. If God can reveal that to anyone then he can for you. So God expects us to seek and wait for his choice through his leadings and not who we feel is best for us or who anyone feels is best for us. As a lady in waiting, when you are relying on God completely for a life partner, you are securing a solid and godly foundation for your marriage in the future. Not only that though, there are a lot of benefits. I'm sure you know you deserve a loving and God fearing partner that will make marriage fulfilling, that will make raising of the kids in a godly way easy and many more beautiful feelings in marriage. Well, this is why God expects us to wait for his choice by His leading. Se...

#Girlsgist COHABITING! A lot of we ladies have gotten it wrong on this and been lied to all in the name of marriage. Before making lifelong commitment before God and man in marriage, please avoid the temptation of cohabiting. Cohabiting is Living together before marriage in a simple definition. It is very wrong for Christians and as a daughter of God to live together with a man or husband to be before marriage. God frowns at this act and expects us to flee from any form of it. He said, “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body”. 1 Corinthians 6:18 Cohabiting births the sin against our own body (sex) so God pleads with us to flee from it. I have heard a lot of ladies say nothing will happen, we are matured enough to control ourselves but for how long? Imagine sharing a space with a man, cooking, washing his cloths and performing any wifey role and you said nothing will ...

 #Girlsgist I will be talking about the 'HOW' that is, in what manner or way we can Value our Preparatory Season. 5. ENJOY YOUR LIFE GIRL! Yeah! This is the last of all my points and it is very necessary and healthy for every girl in her waiting season. I know you may want to know why I brought this to the last point, well this is because a lot of young ladies that are waiting have turned their lives into something else, something that looks miserable or to be pitied on. To the fact that, it now shows in their looks, relationship (even with God), habits and many more areas. Well, This is another area we need to be intentional and practical about as girls in their preparatory seasons. Sister! Please ENJOY your life... Few days back, I was talking to some young persons. I told them that this is the time for me to enjoy my life especially now that I am free or owe no husband any explanation before I travel to where ever I want to or any children to consider an...

#Girlsgist I will be talking about the 'HOW' that is, in what manner or way we can Value our Preparatory Season. 4. DEVELOP YOUR SELF QUALITIES This is another area we need to be intentional and practical about as girls in their preparatory seasons. Now, the gist in this aspect is in our personality. Our self qualities are the things that makes us who we are, in other words they are our personality. See ehn! Most of us, our personality is zero. We absolutely have nothing to write about ourselves then what do we expect others to write? Our personality sets us apart in a good way but if yours does not then you have to develop it now that you are still a single girl because you can not take such life to keep some bodies son miserable. Lol! Now let's get serious with this personality thing. We all know ourselves and of course God knows us better. So if for any reason you are praying to get married to a guy with all the sweet qualities and you are not a...

#Girlsgist I will be talking about the 'HOW' that is, in what manner or way we can Value our Preparatory Season. 3. GET TO FIND PURPOSE This is another area we need to be intentional and practical about as girls in their preparatory seasons. And this can be done first by asking God to reveal to us what he has called us to do for Him or for the society. Fulfilling purpose is key. Fulfilling purpose is having inner peace. Fulfilling purpose gives Joy and Happiness. Fulfilling purpose is one reason why we are created by God. So you see why we must must all get to find purpose? Everyone of us is born with a unique purpose; either in ministry or career areas etc. So identifying our unique purpose while waiting is so needful. Purpose is so easy to find but a lot of us see it to be one hard work thing and we relent and prefer living an ordinary life, whereas God wants us to do more for Him and to impact lives in our society. See ehn! Purpose is simply our pas...