BEFORE WALKING DOWN THE AISLE. By Mrs. Raquel Daniel

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BEFORE WALKING DOWN THE AISLE.
By Mrs. Raquel Daniel

I believe it’s an honest desire for single ladies to want someone they also can call a “Husband.”
I don’t mean ‘Desperation’ now; ‘Desire’ is the word. Having the desire to marry is a very good thing: “For God, Himself saw that it is not good for a man to be alone,” (Gen 2:18, Prov 18:22). Meaning; as a lady, someone would need you for a helper, which is good. Marrying early is also beautiful; I admire many young couples. There’s just something practical to learn, watching them showcase real virtues even in their homes; Beautiful! But ladies, do not let “age” put you under pressure. That all your friends got married below 25 doesn’t mean being single is a curse. God is a good God; He would not withhold anything good from you (Psalm 84:11).

First, let us establish that getting troubled about your single stage, because you do not have a man, is out of tune with God’s idea. That is an underlying issue you should work on. “Marriage doesn’t complete you; neither does it make you a ‘more important’ person. Your identity, first, is in who you are in God, not on whether or not you are married.”
Being without a husband ‘yet’ is not punishment. And it is also not because you’re not good enough; No! Because God loves you, He has a lot He’s still working in you.

It is possible that He has made you wait this long because you’re still not ready for the Son He’s preparing you for. God sees our hearts. He can tell when we are ready and emotionally mature to deal with the issues in marriage.

In TD Jakes’ words, “sometimes, it is necessary to be hidden by God. Obscurity gives you the chance to develop yourself. When the time is right, when you’re strong enough to withstand the elements of marriage, then you will be revealed.”

You really don’t want to rush into marriage too soon; you have forever to enjoy it. Marriage is work!
The excitement of marriage you think you want now, except you’re ready for it, God is not wicked to give it to you.

THE IMPORTANCE OF WORKING IN GODS VINEYARD AND HUMANITY
Take advantage of the precepts God brings; your ‘wait’ period should be active. As long as you deliberately are being productive during this season, the wait is for a purpose; look at it that way! Enlarge your tent and be ready to accommodate what is coming
(Isa 54:1-2).
Spend time with God’s word building your emotions. It is wise that you engage yourself in prayers while still single. Make declarations in the spirit over your future partner. You probably already do these things, but this time, take the prayers beyond yourself.
The single season should be used to volunteer, learn skills and touch lives positively. Use your wait time to engage with God and ultimately, serve in His house.

God is more interested in who we become in the seasons he let us go through, not just as wives.
Every today’s experience would prepare you for the purpose he had creating you, which alongside aligns with preparing you for your husband. It also would prepare Him for you. You both are being worked on individually. The guy would show up when it’s it’s time, and your spirit would know. And as you engage with God, regardless of how long you wait, events are orchestrated when the time is right to bring God’s best for you.

Be approachable alright; Package and attractively present yourself. But don’t let age pressure you regarding marriage. Trust that God, the Master matchmaker, is Faithful regarding your marital destiny. “He has a Kingdom full of His choicest Princes. He would give you His best as a husband when it is time.”

Wow!
Thank you so much ma'am for this deep truth.

Dear sisters, I hope you are blessed and please share to as many ladies you know it will blessed.

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