BEFORE WALKING DOWN THE AISLE. By Mrs. Jennifer Edusei

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BEFORE WALKING DOWN THE AISLE.
By Mrs. Jennifer Edusei

First of all to the young ladies that do not see there single season as a blessing, please let go of the idea that being single means “there’s something wrong with you!

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you! that’s low self esteem, low self worth & low self love.

Your singleness is a blessing!
Being single is the TRAINING CAMP for that. You get to INVEST in YOU, build and deepen your relationship with God, find and pursue your passion and become the best version of yourself.

I found my purpose when I was single.
I got to spend time with God and it deepened my relationship with Him.
No emotional, physical or spiritual drama to distract me. I knew that if i leave everything in God’s hands, He will write a beautiful love story for me, which He did

BELIEVING IN GOD'S PROMISES
Some people are legit single by choice and waiting on The Lord!
After all, you can decide to choose from a lot trying to pursue you. But, knowing your worth and waiting on God, that thing takes a level of faith and patience that can only be produced by prayer and seeking God’s presence for discernment and direction!

God is the best story writer.

He sees what we don’t see and knows who’s best for us.
The Bible says the we make our plans but the Lord orders our steps.
(Proverbs 16:9)

Wait for that ONE who, would not only love you so much but, would also respect you and lead you to the aisle with God's approval. You will be amazed to find both love and friendship in ONE person, pursing God together! There's no need to worry on when or how, just hold on to God’s promise that in His perfect time, He will surely reveal what's intended for you.
Get your spirit right, your body right, and your mind right. Do your part, while having the faith to know that God will do His. Too many people go into their next relationship being the same person that they were in their last relationship. Still broken-hearted, still damaged, still unchanged, and still doing the same things that were an issue in their last relationship.
Going into the next relationship as the same broken person, is the reason why many people end up dating people just like the same person who broke them.

If you want my future husband to be "the man that I'm praying for", it's only that you strive to be the woman that he’s praying for. Remember you are the prize and favor that adds to a man’s life (Proverbs 18:22) so the day you walk down the aisle to say "I Do" has the propensity to change the directory of your life, dictate your (future) children lives and break curses off your generation. This can be the best or worst decision you make, there are lives hanging in the balance pending this one life altering decision. So don’t let society, social media, family or biological clocks ticking rush you into a decision that can destroy you. I know the struggle is real, because you were created to be a wife and mother and some of you have been waiting for years to see promises manifested.
This isn’t the time to give up now, God is faithful and is still working.

Also, Being single is the TRAINING CAMP for that. You should be praying more than you ever have in your life, spending more time with Jesus and be in the best shape of your life.
Be the best version of myself. Your future husband deserves that! When He meets you, He will finally say, "I've found the one! Thank you Jesus for answering my prayers! Keep striving to be the best "you", so that you will be ready for the best that God has for you!
If you find yourself getting anxious, get on your prayers, fast and hear from God!
God may change your directions, but never your destiny.
Cling to Christ in these moments of uncertainty. He loves you so much. He’s not punishing you. He’s preparing you. It’s better to stay single than to be in a miserable marriage!

“TO WAIT” DOESN’T MEAN “BE IDLE”.
BE FOUND IN PURPOSE. GET BUSY DOING SOMETHING SO YOU DON’T END UP GETTING FRUSTRATED OR DESPERATE.

Also, You can desire marriage, but don’t worship or idolize it.

Wow!
Thank you so much ma'am for this deep truth.

Dear sisters, I hope you are blessed and please share to as many ladies you know it will bless.

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